Back To School - Transition

Across the nation it’s time to go “back to school.” Some parents are waving to their 5 year old as she navigates, for the first time, the bus steps that are almost as tall as she is. Other parents are unloading the SUV into a 12 x 12 foot college dorm room which their son will be sharing with one or two strangers. Regardless of what stage in life you’re at, “back to school” probably evokes emotions and unique memories. It’s an American tradition! Because “back to school” is such a significant time for so many people, most prefer to make their moves during the summer so that they will be settled in their new homes before the academic school year begins. However, regardless of when a move takes place, most parents readily admit that the ease of transition for their children is utmost in their minds. Here are some ways to make a move easier for your child:Arrange to visit the new school before the move. If possible, ask for a tour from a student guide. Knowing something about the new school will help in the transition. Make sure they have an opportunity to say goodbye to their friends. Host a party or arrange for treats at school. Give your child pre-printed address cards for them to hand out to their friends and encourage them to keep in touch. The internet has made it easier than ever to stay in contact. Research extracurricular activities before you arrive at your new home. Moving during the school year often allows children to immediately become involved in extracurricular activities and to meet new friends. If you move during the summer see if there are town camps or library programs in which your child can participate. Involve your child in decision making and research concerning the new community. Just as planning for a vacation can be as exciting as taking one…preparing for and dreaming about a new home can be an adventure. Make sure your child is a part of the process and that his or her opinion matters. Consider having your child stay with friends or relatives while your household goods are being packed. Seeing your belongings put into boxes is stressful even for adults! Encourage your child to ask questions and express his or her feelings about the move.Children pick up on the feelings and emotions of their parents. If you are excited about your move your child will be, too! If you are stressed and worried, your child will probably mirror those feelings.